INTERFAITH SERVICE

May 13th, 2008

My young friend Raffie had his bar mitzvah last weekend in LA, mainly to keep his Dad’s side of the family happy. It turned out to be an Orthodox Chabad service in a rented upstairs room at the Best Western, attended mainly by family and a few others in order to make up a minyan — the requisite ten men traditionally required for Jewish prayer services. Men and women sat separately. There was two and a half hours almost entirely in Hebrew, and aliyahs (blessings read aloud) which seemed to deal extensively with which offences merit stoning along with other topical issues like the constraints on wearing wool and linen at the same time and not eating fruit for the first three years after planting a tree. It’s always good to see how others’ worship. All religions tend to function much the same, yet each one is nothing if not particular.

Raff had invited one of his best friends, whose family happens to be Lebanese and Muslim. We weren’t holding much hope that he would actually come, but thank goodness there are still some sane and sensible religious folk around, amongst all us “my brand is much better” merchants. So young Kareem was dropped off, bravely made his way into the midst of a synagogue service, donned a yarmulke and sat like an angel.

Hassan, this the boy’s dad, later reported that the boys had apparently decided — without parental approval — that the party later that afternoon would be an ideal time to persuade Raff’s father of the joy and safety of shooting airsoft guns — the new craze in LA. So Kareem was going to bring along his airsoft gun. He was getting out of the back seat of his dad’s car to go up the steps and into the Jewish service, with it in his hand, before his father notices and says: “Don’t you have something to put that in?” Kareem says no, he’s just going to carry it. To which Hassan rejoins: “Excuse me, you’re an Arab, going into a synagogue in the middle of a service, brandishing a gun… I don’t think so!”

The gun went home with Hassan; Kareem went upstairs to do his bit for interfaith understanding; and this story of interfaith respect and understanding has had us all chortling ever since.

Moral of the story: put away your guns and your extreme views, my friends the religionists, and let’s try to tread a wise middle way.

ALL IS POSSIBLE

May 7th, 2008

I took my eleven year old next door neighbor to the Boston marathon finish line today, and we had a great time. Hundreds of thousands of people lined Boylston Street, right in the heart of town where the Boston Public Library– first in America– and the Trinity Church stand.

The end of the women’s race was especially exciting, with a youthful 22 year old African girl running away from the Russian champion (winner of last years marathon here) after running side by side for miles and miles.

My brother the mad scientist ran in this race once or twice, and I met him near the end. At the time I thought: ya gotta be truly mad to endure this!

Today, deep in my middle years, upon observing the determination, stamina, heart and grace of these elite athletes, I thought to myself: How good it would be if we could put anything like their discipline and commitment into our ownspiritual pursuits and altruistic community activities. Anything is possible. We could literally change the world!

Don’t Just Pass Us Over, Pope

April 25th, 2008

I happened to be driving into Manhattan Friday for our traditional tristate-area Miller family Passover weekend, when my motorcade ran into the Pope’s. (Mine was a lot smaller, Buddhist-style.) When did religion start to need all the pomp and circumstance, I wonder? Was it or is it when we lose sight of the spirit and need the worldly trappings to remember to experience the spiritual splendor and magnificence which is never far from us?

I didn’t mind, having read that Benedict was, for the first time in history, visiting a synagogue in the New York — the first time for any Pontiff in the New World. Not bad for someone who has, in the last several years, managed to seriously offend Turkish Moslems, Catholics, Buddhists, abuse victims, gays, women, and others during his decades at the very highest echelons of his churchвs hierarchy. His heavy doctrinal hand has been obvious in papal pronouncements of recent decades including that yoga is the devil’s work; that other religions, and even other Christian denominations, are gravely deficient in their hopes for salvation; and that Buddhism is atheistic and life-denying, much to the chagrin of Catholics of interfaith appreciation throughout the world.

I was a fan of the late saintly Pope John Paul, despite his anachronistic views about contraception, abortion, and female priests. But for far too long this Catholic leader now known as Benedict XVI has had a big mouth and no ears, not unlike the aged autocratic leaders of Communist China. Listening could be the one skill we all need to learn better if this century is to become and era of dialogue rather than another century of violence and bloodshed. If the conservative new Pope wants to understand the poor and abused he could learn to empathize by walking a mile in their shoes. I believe that God’s church is all of the people, all of the time, not just some of them sometimes. Religion should be a uniting rather than dividing force in this fleeting world of ours.

Pope Benedict is not known for flexibility, inclusiveness, warmth, or tolerance. A scholar and administrator, in his previous incarnation as the Vatican’s doctrinal enforcer Cardinal Joseph Ratzinger, he was the long time head of the ultraconservative Opus Dei, Prefect of the Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith (formerly known as the Holy Office of the Inquisition) and Dean of the College of Cardinals. Dubbed by his many critics as The Grand Inquisitor, he famously squashed dissenting views in the church–most notably among Catholic Liberation Theologians and priests dedicated to the poorest people of South America, as well as the far-seeing, eminent Swiss churchman Dr. Hans Kung who is among Europe’s preeminent intellectuals. Ratzinger was dubbed “the battle tank Cardinal” for his heavy-handedness in dealing with dissent and debate.

We in Boston were not happy to hear the recent news that, fully six years since the sexual abuse scandal erupted among Bostonвs Catholic community, the Pope again ignored Cardinal Sean O’Malley’s repeated urgent invitations imploring him to visit our fair city and address victims of sexual abuse. Perhaps the Pope was perhaps diplomatically correct in avoiding our traditionally Catholic city, the epicenter of the pedophile priest crisis, but his actions and policies must, and inevitably will, will speak louder than mere placating words and carefully crafted public statements during visits abroad. In his United Nations address, he stressed the necessity of human rights, including freedom of religion, and how people of faith will lead the way in the direction of peace today. This is a nice thought, but extreme religious beliefs and dogmatic views among some religionists seem to be having quite the opposite effect in our time. I believe that if the Pope is interested in peace and reconciliation, he ought to seriously support genuine interfaith dialogue and cooperation beyond public performances, appearances which too often smack more of public relations. Moreover, although he did meet with five victims of sexual abuse from Boston in New York City Saturday, he still needs to clean up his own house by disciplining the bishops who helped cover up the criminal acts of their perpetrator priests. (Child abuse? Lord, save us!) Unfortunately, this he seems loathe to do.

I hope that the huge trust the Church has placed in Pope Benedict will help him grow wiser and more inclusive, broader and deeper, to become what Robert Greenleaf called a servant leader, a selfless service-oriented good shepherd dedicated to the greatest good for the greater number. Personally, I try to remember that the word catholic with a small “c” means universal, and to include all beings great and small in my prayers and altruistic actions.

Golden Gate Tibet

April 18th, 2008

A Startling Contrast

I’ve just returned from conducting a meditation retreat in Southern California at Joshua Tree National Park, where the desert is blooming and sprinkled liberally with native turquoise pieces where I took my daily walks. As often happens, when returning from the news fast that occurs while away on a silent meditation retreat in the wilderness, I found it a startling contrast to face the frightening news of China’s renewed crackdown on protesters in the normally peaceful lands of the Tibetan people.

After the retreat I traveled to San Francisco for a Buddhist teachers’ meeting, where I witnessed the peaceful, mainly Burmese Buddhist monks demonstrating by walking in mindful fashion across the Golden Gate Bridge. Meanwhile, more tumultuous demonstrations were going on elsewhere in San Francisco to protest the Olympic Torch relay and China’s deplorable human rights record — particularly the Tibet situation. What a contrast indeed between these peaceable, politically engaged monks from many countries with their lay friends and followers walking the bridge — faithfully exemplifying Buddha’s adage to abide joyfully amidst the sufferings of this fleeting, dreamlike world — and some enraged Buddhists who advocate fighting for peace .

Even some ordinarily pacifist Tibetan Buddhists are up in arms about the recent crackdown in their beleaguered country, although the Dalai Lama himself has continuously warned against violent protest and considers it to be unproductive and even suicidal. Monks and nuns have demonstrated before, but now tens of thousands of lay people have joined in, revealing deeply seated resentment and frustration with China’s misrule in Tibet. How to follow the middle way, the golden mean of balance and appropriateness, in these troubled times? Will the peace-loving Dalai Lama ever get back to his endangered country of Tibet, where the Han Chinese already outnumber the native Tibetans and more and more Chinese are arriving every day?

In Inner Mongolia, Han Chinese now outnumber natives by approximately eight to one. This is China’s plan for Tibet after the Olympics, according to reliable sources. The Chinese regime’s anachronistic Cultural-Revolution-like language such as “the Dalai Lama is a jackal in Buddhist monk’s robes and an evil spirit with a human face and the heart of a beast” used by the Chinese Communist Party leadership in the Tibet Autonomous Region is of no help in easing the situation, nor is it beneficial to the Chinese government’s image.  China explicitly aspires to In order to be a global power and especially to lead the Third World and developing countries; this cannot be accomplished without moral authority and basic freedoms in place in their own country.

At the Center of History-making Events

The Dalai Lama is in Seattle right now, stressing his message of universal responsibility, human rights for all, nonviolence, compassion, forgiveness and reconciliation. He called on China to make Tibet completely open to foreign journalists and visitors, and said his representatives are conducting private talks with mid-level Chinese officials. And, he spoke about having hope for the future and the need for humanity to look past a century of bloodshed toward a new era of dialogue.

He reiterated his appeal for an international investigation into China’s recent crackdown of the anti-government uprising in Tibet, calling Beijing’s version of events “distorted.” He called for international relief efforts on behalf of the thousands injured in the recent demonstrations in Tibet and China who are afraid to seek medical attention for fear of being documented or reported as terrorists. China has long accused the Dalai Lama of being a “splittist” and inciting the recent violent protests in Tibet, which it describes as looting by a small group of Tibetan separatists. The Dalai Lama refutes those claims, saying the uprisings come amid wider discontent in the autonomous region and reaffirming his long-held position that he is seeking autonomy and freedom of religion and culture for his country rather than independence.

In a recent statement, he reiterated this viewpoint: “For the future of Tibet, I have decided to find a solution within the framework of the People’s Republic of China. Since 1974, I have sincerely remained steadfast to the mutually beneficial Middle-Way Approach. The whole world knows this. The Middle-Way Approach means that all Tibetans must be governed by similar administration that enjoys meaningful National Regional Autonomy and all the provisions in it, self-rule and full decision-making, except for matters concerning foreign relations and national defense. However, I have said it from the beginning that the Tibetans in Tibet have the right to make the final decision for the future of Tibet.” In addition, he has repeatedly assured that he is not anti-Chinese but is pro-human rights and seeks to avoid the cultural genocide of the Tibetan people–an oppressed people held hostage in their own homeland.

Geography Informs Tibet’s Wisdom Tradition

Tibet lies at the center of Asia, with an area of 2.5 million square kilometers and an average altitude of 13,000 feet above sea level. The earth’s highest mountains, a vast arid plateau and great river valleys make up the physical homeland of 6 million Tibetans. The Himalayan Mountains are in fact the source of Asia’s major rivers including the Ganges, Mekong and Yellow and Yangtse, which nourish billions of people in Asia. These rivers are therefore extremely important and environmentally sensitive. I read that China plans to drain the Himalayas to solve its water woes

Tibetans use the term Tibet to mean the three provinces U-tsang (central Tibet), Amdo, and Kham (eastern Tibet). When Chinese officials and publications use the term “Tibet,” they mean only The Tibet Autonomous Region (TAR), which was created by China in 1965 for administrative reasons. It includes only one of the five provinces of the Tibetan plateau that comprise the historical homeland of the Tibetan people and culture as it existed before the 1949-50 invasion. Two million Tibetans today live within the TAR as well as four million in those Tibetan areas now under Qinghai, Gansu, Sichuan and Yunnan provinces. Two-thirds of the population of the TAR consists of Han Chinese.

Tibetan religious culture is widely revered as perhaps the last remaining great wisdom culture from ancient times. Those of Mesopotamia and the Mediterranean are long gone, so preserving this endangered wisdom resource should be high among our priorities for maintaining and passing on what is best and most necessary to life. What is the future of the nontheistic ethical and psychologically astute, mind-science and wisdom tradition known as Buddhism? — once the world’s most populous religion, yet decimated in recent times by communism in Asia? Can we afford to lose this knowledge resource in favor of free trade and globalism?  Tibet symbolically represents the high ground within us all.

In his recent interview with NBC’s Ann Curry, The Dalai Lama asserted that Tibetan Buddhist knowledge is one of the ancient treasures of India, and has become an ancient treasure of the whole world that can contribute to our physical and mental health to produce happier human individuals, families and societies. He affirmed three commitments that he has made and is currently focused upon:

- To promote human values in order to better the lives of human beings
- To promote religious harmony in the world and the region
- To promote the Tibetan cause: the preservation of the Tibetan nation as a people, and the preservation of Tibetan culture and knowledge as well as the Tibetan language.

The Dalai Lama often says that war is an outmoded means of conflict resolution. To learn more about how he came to think and be the way he is, read Pico Iyer’s thoughtful new book, The Open Road: The Global Journey of the Dalai Lama, or view Martin Scorcese’s film Kundun about His Holiness’ early life and upbringing in Tibet. His Ethics for a New Millennium and My Land, My People  and Richard Avedon’s Cry of the Snow Lion are also good sources.

The World Weighs In

What is the future of religion in Communist China, which has consistently been atheistic, harshly critical to and restrictive of all forms of religious expression, now that its current regime has stepped into the fray by cynically appointing religious leaders Buddhist and Catholic for no other possible reason than gathering political power? The Communist regime, famously atheistic and dismissal of all forms of religion, has recently taken a new, more politically maleficent tack by insisting it has the right to appoint Buddhist reincarnate lamas (such as the Dalai and Panchen Lamas) as well as Catholic Archbishops and others.

The Beijing Olympic Torch relay leading up to the summer Olympics has helped illuminate the actual the situation of occupied Tibet, as well as the larger issues of other minorities in China. Religious freedom is equally unavailable to Christians, Muslims, Uyghurs, and Mongols. The so-called “torch of harmony” paraded around the globe by China as a public relations event for the Olympics was actually initiated as a custom in modern times by Adolf Hitler for the 1936 Berlin Games.

To win its bid to host this summer’s 2008 Olympic Games, the Chinese government made broad commitments to improving its human rights record as well as specific pledges to improve media access in advance of the Games. The United Nations, Amnesty International, the International league of Jurors, the European Community and others repeatedly have called for investigations into issues of human rights abuse. The head of the International Olympic Committee has just taken an uncharacteristic step into the political fray by reminding China that one of the conditions of it being awarded the opportunity to host the Olympics at this time was to clean up its rights record and to provide media access.

In recent weeks, European leaders including Gordon Brown of the UK, Angela Merkel of Germany, and France’s Nicholas Sarkozy have, in protest and solidarity, pulled out of participating in the Olympic opening ceremonies in Beijing, calling for meaningful dialogue to be established between top Chinese leaders and the Dalai Lama. All three main US presidential candidates have spoken out against human rights abuse, for world leaders to boycott the Olympic opening ceremonies, and for meaningful dialogue between Chinese leaders and the Dalai Lama.

And yet, although it’s a good start, conscious-raising and expressions of moral outrage are insufficient unless followed by effective action and some form of change. The United States and other governments chose to overlook continued suppression of human rights in favor of market opportunities in China when negotiating trade deals with Beijing. In the Boston area where I live, I cannot find a toy to give to my Tibetan friends’ children that is not Made in China, as are so many other products today. Trade sanctions have historically proven valuable in ending apartheid and other abusive practices; why not bring such pressure to bear on China today?

We may have to tighten our belts and put our money where our mouth is to undermine the success of China as a trade partner if it does not enter more willingly into the free global economy with its checks and balances, and if we wish to live a more moral and equitable life on our endangered planet. China, by the way, is a notorious atmospheric polluter and gargantuan consumer of world resources. And its support for totalitarian regimes in Tibet, Sudan and Burma is based upon hunger for their natural resources such as lumber, natural gas and minerals.

Human rights activists are seizing the media moment to point all this out. They rightly see the Olympics as an opportunity to draw international attention to their causes: Tibet, Darfur, Falun Gong, North Korean refugees, oppressed Christians, imprisoned journalists, and more. In San Francisco the weekend of the torch relay, Save Darfur demonstrators vied for space with Free Tibet supporters.

The Wall Street Journal opined this week: “But as the crackdown in Tibet demonstrates, China still has far to go to meet developed-world standards in the way it treats its own people. Nor is it a responsible player on the world stage, as seen by its support of murderous regimes in Sudan and Burma.”

Future of the Tibetan People at Stake

In fact, most Tibetans live in poverty, excluded from the economic gains seen by the Han Chinese settlers dispatched by Beijing to Tibetan areas for the purpose of diluting local culture. Since China’s annexation of Tibet in 1950, countless Tibetans have been killed and hundreds of religious sites destroyed.” In response to the question: What does the average Tibetan want? Is it independence, or a greater share of Tibet’s modernization and economic growth, which has been dominated by Han Chinese? Columbia professor Robert Barnett, an expert on Tibet said, “It’s not really either of those things. We have to be very careful not to confuse exile politics, which is a demand for anti-China this and anti-China that, with internal politics, which is much more pragmatic, complex, and sophisticated.”

An important group of Tibetans has become very wealthy because China has poured money into creating a middle class in Tibetan towns, though there hasn’t really been a dividend for the countryside and the underclass. So, we can’t explain this as just economic modernization. We could explain the violence against the Han Chinese in that way, but the violence is present in just one demonstration out of 50 in the last few weeks.

According to Tibet expert Robert Barnett in an interview with Foreign Policy, “These protests are really about two things: A huge sector of the rural population has said, ‘Tibet was independent in the past. We reassert that belief. That doesn’t mean we demand that it be independent again, but we are reinserting that into the discussion.’ And, ‘The Dalai Lama represents our interests.’ I suppose a possible third thing is, ‘We are certainly not happy with Chinese President Hu Jintao.’ This is a huge political statement that nobody anticipated.”

Barnett continues, “There is a growing group outside China, generally young and English or Hindi speaking, who are strongly animated by the idea that diplomacy doesn’t work — and will never work — in China, and instead they must go for independence. In this case, independence stands for a criticism that China can’t be trusted and an implication that a spiritual figure like the Dalai Lama can’t be tough enough. But it’s quite complicated. These people feel they are adding muscle because they are doing what he can’t as a monk and spiritual figure. But even they do not generally question his standing, and they certainly see him as the solution.”

Tibetan civil servants, party members and schoolchildren recently have been ordered to attend special re-education sessions, according to Tibet Daily. But the campaign may be backfiring. Recent clashes in Sichuan province reportedly were triggered when the head of the Tongkor Monastery objected to Communist Party teaching materials criticizing the Dalai Lama. “Getting people to denounce the Dalai Lama or to recite ideological statements shows a lack of imagination on the part of the Communist Party. There is no way they can force people into what they say is the correct way of thinking,” said Ronald Schwartz, a Canadian scholar.

Beijing’s oppression of the Tibetan people is indeed abhorrent. “We are deeply concerned with the selective way in which the Chinese authorities are representing the crisis,” wrote Lodi Gyaltsen Gyari, the Dalai Lama’s chief representative in talks with Beijing. “The rifts that are developing between Tibetans and Chinese could last for generations and they could cause irrevocable harm to the harmonious relations between the two communities. The protests that we have seen among my Tibetan compatriots are not only a result of several years of hard-line policies by Beijing. They have deeper roots, arising from 50 years of Chinese misrule.”

Meanwhile, although it is doubtless true that some Tibetans have garnered significant economic benefit from the Chinese development of their country, all Tibetans — historically among the most religious people on earth, even into the mid-twentieth century — continue to live and suffer under stringent religious restrictions unheard of throughout the rest of mainland China. Their fundamental human rights increasingly are restricted and they are under threat of arrest for such simple things as carrying a picture of the Dalai Lama or a Tibetan national flag.

What shall we do as the Dalai Lama enters his last years and the Tibetan people may be doing so as well? I believe that we cannot afford to stand by and watch or avert our gaze without becoming complicit in this crime against humanity.

Interspiritual Dialogue

March 1st, 2008

My late friend Brother Wayne Teasdale, who died a couple of years ago from cancer, wrote:

“We are at the dawn of a new consciousness, a radically fresh approach to our life as the human family in a fragile world. This birth into a new awareness, into a new set of historical circumstances, appears in a number of shifts in our understanding:

  • The emergence of ecological awareness and sensitivity to the natural organic world, with an acknowledgment of the basic fragility of the earth.
  • A growing sense of the rights of other species.
  • A recognition of the interdependence of all domains of life and reality.
  • The ideal of abandoning a militant nationalism as a result of this tangible sense of our essential interdependence.
  • A deep, evolving experience of community between and among the religions through their individual members.
  • The growing receptivity to the inner treasures of the worlds religions.
  • An openness to the cosmos, with the realization that the relationship between humans and the earth is part of a larger community of the universe.

Each of these shifts represents dramatic change; taken together, they will define the thought and culture of the third millennium. All of these awarenesses are interrelated, and each is indispensable to clearly grasping the greater shift taking place, a shift that will sink roots deep into our lives and culture. Taken together, they are preparing the way for a universal civilization: a civilization with a heart. (Brother Wayne Teasdale, “Mystic Heart”)

“We have a universal responsibility to speak out when we see injustice, oppression, and the abuse of human rights, the rights of the earth, and other species. Personally, I find the silence on the crises in Tibet and Darfur disturbing and morally indefensible; it indicates a lack of courage and moral strength that hides behind considerations of prudence and discretion.”

There are few souls as gentle as Brother Wayne Teasdale, “lay monk” and pioneer of the interfaith movement, who also speak as stridently and compellingly as he does about the necessity for all spiritual leaders to actively respond to the crises facing the world. But for Teasdale, the result of any true and deep mystical experience must be an active and engaged response to the cries of a suffering humanity and an embattled earth.

His interfaith work and group called Interspiritual Dialogue continues today.

Mexico

February 25th, 2008

Last week I was in Mexico, on the west coast at Chacala (population 300), an hour and a half drive north of Puerto Vallarta. It is one of the last undeveloped palm-fringed bays in the area, now being threatened by commercial developers who want to turn the lovely sylvan beach into a marina and condos. There I was fortunate to meet and get to know a wonderful medical missionary named Dr. Laura de Valle, a trained physician and alternative medicine doctor, grandmother and zen Buddhist who has worked there almost single handedly serving the area for twenty-five years and is currently embroiled in trying to preserve the traditional culture and peoples of that region. What began over twenty-five years ago as a few simple palapas built to house American medical students she recruited for on going work-study programs to treat the region’s poor villagers has become a little Mexican-style seaside resort spa and sanctuary called Mar de Jade (Sea of Jade). It is within twenty yards of the ever rolling, singing sea — a charming, bougainvillea and banana tree covered vacation oasis on the jungle’s edge, reminiscent of the Costa Verde jungle outpost in “The Night of the Iguana.” The charming little hotel has 30 guest rooms at present, in four two storey buildings.

Laura says that, along with her devoted family and long term paid native staff members, she tries to strike a balance between the learning and serving side of things along with just relaxing and enjoying, for self-renewal takes many different forms. “People come here to recuperate from the modern world. And we’ve had many goodhearted people stay here, people who really want to make a difference.” It is a wonderful place to do so, with stellar beach, home cooked meals prepared in a meticulously clean kitchen, swimming pools, hot tub, morning yoga sessions, massage rooms, a zen meditation hall, and lots of sun, space and quietude. Groups often rent it for retreats, including this year a zen Buddhist meditation retreat, a Sufi camp, human potential workshop and a wide variety of yoga retreats. Whale watching, dolphins, pelicans and body surfing enriched my time at Chacala Bay. One Saturday night at sunset there was an outdoor wedding on a grassy knoll, with Reverend Laura officiating and whales breaching in a background of fiery-red and orange sea and painted sky.

Charismatic, passionate, intense and chatty; Dr. Laura has founded, funded and directs a free medical clinic, an after school program for children from impoverished families, and is enthusiastically trying to set up micro industry projects for the many single moms in the region. For over two decades she has seasonal intern programs and residential opportunities for altruistic volunteers young and old interested in selfless service. The locals believe she is a curandera, a healer with powers. Dr. Laura says: “Twenty years ago, I didn’t think anyone would last a week here. In the beginning we had to boil water from a muddy creek, use kerosene lamps, dodge scorpions and sleep in rain-soaked huts. But the students loved it. It was eye-opening for all of us to live and work here over the years, because in these very poor traditional communities you realize how rural medicine intersects with so many other issues. You’re really doing social work and community development. I have learned a great deal from people who can’t read.” Laura has helped with both seed money and mini-loans to the fishing boats, sewing co-ops, food programs, financial support for medical emergencies, has funded legal and human rights services and hosted and facilitated many guests to get village projects underway. She is a one woman charitable enterprise.

Dr. Laura united Habitat visitors with her brother to start “Techos de Mexico”, a program that helped villagers build rooms for bed and breakfast to generate income from tourists. Dentist friends of mine from San Antonio are donating new dental equipment and time annually to serve the poor farmers and fisherman of the region. Her current dream is to recreate a residential program, as Mar de Jade had for many years, with a long enough stay for guests to get into the rhythm of a wholesome personal life that includes meditation, yoga, group dynamics and in depth community work. A pair of bilingual young graduates from Brown University in Rhode Island were manning the reception desk when I checked in; it wasn’t long before it became apparent that one was Laura’s daughter Angelica, who just gave birth to her first child. She hugged and kissed me on both cheeks when I left twelve days later.

For more information, contact info@mardejade.com.

TRUTH TELLING

February 21st, 2008

stone_key.jpgMy dear friend Mirabai Bush, founder of The Contemplative Mind in Society Institute, based in Northampton, Massachusetts, has this to say:

“In this present political moment, words are being used both to inspire and to manipulate. What is a contemplative to do?  Well, for an organization committed to the power of silence, we find ourselves most of the time talking, writing, speaking out. And discussing contemplative speech-what it is, what it isn’t.”

I learned my first contemplative practices in a monastery in Bodh Gaya, India, a dusty village of temples and chai stands. I sat in meditation for two months in silence, watching my breath rise and fall. Thoughts arose also, and since no one else was talking to me, I found them fascinating. How smart!  How creative! But little by little, as I looked more closely, I began to see that they were simply thoughts, not necessarily true. They were full of preconceptions, colored by emotions, and dependent on words, which were rarely precise. It was sad to accept; I liked my thoughts. They were, after all, mine. But breath by breath, I began to appreciate that the truth is even more satisfying than our thoughts and opinions about it.  I had just come from studying poetry in graduate school, and now I began to see what William Carlos Williams was getting at with “The Red Wheelbarrow”: so much depends/upon/a red wheel/barrow/glazed with rain/water/beside the white chickens. Simply say what is there, what is true.

As I was leaving the monastery and getting ready to talk again, I asked my friend Ram Dass for guidance. How could I speak with integrity if my thoughts were so untrustworthy?  “Simple,” he said. “Say what you know; don’t say what you don’t know.” He thought it was simple; I thought I might never speak again!

Buddhist teachings include the concept of Right Speech: It is spoken at the right time. It is spoken in truth. It is spoken affectionately. It is spoken beneficially. It is spoken with a mind of good-will. That could be a good test for the w